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DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?

Love at first sight is not usually common in the society we live in today, however, many years ago we could say that it was more habitual, everything and that what happened before were forced marriages or similar.

In our opinion, love at first sight is something that, although you are very attracted to a person, you have a different and strange feeling.

This kind of love is not taken seriously, since it is usually thought to be false, can someone really fall in love so quick? Many relationships break because of jealousy. A person gets jealous when he/she is afraid of losing that person he/she wants, but that fear is from insecurity and not trusting someone. In my opinion, a relationship is based on the trust and confidence between the two people. You cannot have this trust and confidence when you meet someone for the first time!

Something else to consider is fidelity in the relationship, because when this fidelity disappears, jealous appears and then trust and confidence is destroyed... When one of the pair, deceives the other part of the couple, everything goes wrong. Finally, you think about forgiving that person you want and think they will behave as you want, but will there ever be trust again.

For all these reasons, we think that a relationship is based on sincerity, trust and fidelity, because if one of these three fails, it is very likely that there will be arguments, tears, or even a break the relationship.

Finally, with the question of "Can love last forever?” Who knows, it all depends on the ability we have to endure the small details of the other person and if we really trust them.

  

COMMENT ABOUT ONE NEWS

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/201311/is-love-first-sight-possible

There are many reports on love at first sight. It is something that happens quickly and instantly, without expecting it. It is a loving, tender and wild feeling. So love at first sight is not easy to explain. Some people even deny it and say it is simply sexual attraction.

Arguments against love at first sight

There are two main reasons to go against love at first sight; the first is because as the person does not know the characteristics of the other person to fall in love, his answer is imaginary and not a real emotion. The second reason is because not having time to perform the typical activities of love, that fact is not possible.

For these reasons, the most attractive people would be the most likely to be the object of love at first sight, gives a value granted to appearances.

Also, referring to the two reasons, love at first sight is not only feeling, but also performing activities, which cannot be exercised at first sight.

Research indicates that romantic love is often based on idealization and positive illusions, and this is also true of the love that lasts for many years. So love at first sight involves beliefs and preparation for actions.

Romantic Intensity and Romantic Depth

The distinction between depth and romantic intensity is crucial to understanding love.

Romantic intensity expresses an instant image of a romantic experience at any given time.

In romantic depth the temporal dimension of love is added, it implies shared activities, which satisfy the essential needs that are constitutive of long-term blossoming of the couple.

The main added value in the inclusion of the time dimension concerns the question of activities.

Love at first sight is essentially intense love. It makes the other person's attraction make you want the rest of the time next to her. It can be the basis for deep love, in the long run, as long as the characteristics typically revealed in verbal communication will later improve. So love at first sight can be the basis of deep love, but it is not.

Love in the first contact.

In a first contact there is a great impact, which can be positive or negative. The characteristics of each are shown, so it depends on those characteristics, the relationship will continue or may decrease as time passes.

Is love at first sight a good indicator for the future?

Love at first sight is a matter of the heart, and as Steve Jobs said, "you will know when to find it."

Research has shown that love at first sight has a significant influence over the long term, therefore, have a positive impact on the relationship. In this sense, if love at first sight becomes a long-term relationship, this relationship has a higher probability of achieving better quality.

Concluding remarks

Love at first sight is nothing more than sexual attraction. It is an intense form of romantic love that has a good chance of becoming intense deep love, as long as they have similar characteristics.

MY BIRTHDAY

My birthday was on March 2nd. This year I am already 18 years old and soon I will also have the my driving liscence (I hope it is March 28 hahaha).

On Thursday March 2 I did nothing special, but in high school, my friends brought me a cake, I was very happy!

Then on the 3rd of March we went to a restaurant to celebrate my birthday, specifically in the "Orange Kiwi" of Empuriabrava. That day I liked it a lot, because I got angry with a friend becuse he told me that he would not come by making an excuse and then he appeared.

I looked silly but I started to cry, and later, after dinner, they brought me many surprise gifts that I did not expect.

I have the best friends! And I hope to have them many more years! If you read this, I LOVE YOU!

Finally, to finish celebrating my birthday we went to carnival, where we had a good time.

Ps: That day, at the end of the carnival, it started to rain but it was great anyway.

CARNIVAL

The 24th,25^th and 26^th of February and the 3rd,4^th and 5th of March was carnival of Roses and Castelló. This year, together with my whole group of friends decided to make a float and this year we chose to go as giraffes.

The carnival was great, especially the Roses cvarnival. But the carnival of Castelló was complicated- one teenager dressed in the same costume as another group and tried to sneak in to the group. This group threw him out. Because of this, it caused everyone to want a fight.

What surprised us is that we went to complain to the police to act and instead we were told that we must do it ourselves.

Finally we ended up well at the carnival although those weekend were very tiring and I returned home very late.

I hope that next year will be even better than it has been this year, and that we could return to all go on the same float, with the same fun.

THE HUNGER GAMES

The second book of the trilogy about "The Hunger Games" is called "In flames" and I will explain what happens after the games og the first book.

The principal characters are Katnis and Peeta; the winners of the seventeenth games.

After this, Katinis think in the games and she rebels against the system because she disagree with these games. Principally because she had to kill different people to survive and after she sees the family of the rivals she killed. 

That provokes she doesn't want to kill the people of the different districts and this starts a rebellion in the districts.

I enjoyed this book because it talks about the morality of people and explans that not all is solved with violence.

Eating a Mediterranean diet 'cuts deadly breast cancer risk by 40%' in post-menopausal women

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4284738/Mediterranean-diet-cuts-breast-cancer-risk-40.html

This news talk about how easting a mediterranean diet can help stop a type of breast cancer in older women.The breast cancer , oestrogen receptor negative breast cancer kills a lot of women who are post menopause. The mediterranean diet reduces risk of this cancer. The study for this diet was made for 20 years. Women should not eat a lot of sugar, white bread, refined fats. They should eat a lot of vegetables, fish and use olive oil.

I like this news because it shows again that the mediterranean diet is the good diet for people. I think that this days people eat a bad diet and we need to listen to experts when they tell us what to eat and what we should not eat.

You want chips with that? Meet Flippy, the burger making robot that cooks the perfect patty every time

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4291376/Meet-Flippy-robot-cooks-perfect-burger.html

This news explains how a new machine for flipping burgers will be used from 2018. The robot will make the job of turning burgers and make them perfect burger every time. The news tells that the job of flipping burgers is a difficult job to find persons to do – no one likes this job. Flippy is designed to work with people, not to take a job from a person.

I think this article is interesting because another time machines are doing the work of persons. The inventors say Flippy is designed to work with people but I think in the future the machines will make all the work and there will be more unemployment.

Meet Sedric: Volkswagen reveals its driverless pod concept that acts as your personal robot chauffeur

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4287010/VW-unveil-self-driving-car-post-dieselgate-shift.html

This article explain about Sedric the new car from VW that is a robot car. This car do not need a driver. With your voice you control the car but tou do that from a computer. You tell the car where to go. It can have 4 persons in the car but not one person must drive. The car can find parking, collect people and all with computer or telephone app. VW think the car will be prepared in 2025.

In my opinion I think technology is fantastic but at the same moment I think we should not be so much for technology. We can learn to drive so why do we have a computer to do this. It make me scared because possible on day humans do not need to be. One day possible all is machines.

Why mobile phones should be banned from the bedroom: They keep you awake at night, even when they're switched off

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-4287894/Why-mobile-phones-banned-bedroom.html

This article explains that because of mobile phones and computers children do not sleep good and they are getting more fat. We know the phones and computers must be off before we sleep because the blue light from these prevents sleep but the problem is more. Children use their mobiles and computers until the minute they go to sleep- this is not good. The number of children who do not sleep good has increased in the last years. Not to have a good sleep makes hormones different and make the children eat more, so they are tired and overweight.

In my opinion I am a modern technology person. I have a mobile and a computer and I use them all the time. I was surprised to read that it makes such problems!

Overweight student whose childhood crush told her she was 'too fat' has the last laugh after she loses 140lbs - and then turns HIM down for a date

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4289210/Woman-slims-refuses-date-boy-teased-her.html

This news explains about a girl who lost a lot of weight after the boy she liked tell her friends- sheis too fat. Rachael was a student in a American high school and she likes a boy a lot. He told her friends she was so fat he would not date her. Rachael decided to diet and go to the gym. She lose a lot of weight and looks fabulous! The boy she likes asked her for a date and she said NO!

I like this news because Rachael win. She lose the kgs and she have revenge on the boy she like.Also this story is sad- people think more important is the look and not the person. I don t like this manner of thinking, but this is the world we live in.

DIALOGUE

SCENARIO: TWO GIRLS AFTER WATCHING A MOVIE IN THE CINEMA

CHARACTERS: LORENA AND PAULA

LORENA: Wow! I was so shacked about the movie!

PAULA: Yeah I know right? How can they put botox on their body?

LORENA: I think that is not necessary wasting so much money in this kind of stuff to look beautiful.

PAULA: I agree, Instead of going through a bunch of expensive surgeries, you could start doing sport and eat more healthy.

LORENA: Think about the canons of beauty in previous centuries, they preferred a women with curves and a pale face and now people anre obsessed with being skinny and tanned.

PAULA: That's true! People also waste a lot of money in X-rays to become tanned and that, eventually, can be harmful for us.

LORENA: Well, In fact I think we look hotter being natural than with all this surgeries. We don't want to look like some reality star...

PAULA: Yeah, I know right? I also prefer being natural and decide what I want to wear and how do I want to look without being pressured by strangers who don't even know me at all. 

LORENA: You're right! Because all this adds and reality TV shows only show us some people who are too concerned about his body and this kind of things. We shouldn't follow what some stupid people say what's cool or not.

PAULA: The only thing that this causes is that we want to be like this people and waste money in silly things. 

LORENA: Yes, that's a big business!

PAULA: And also, this business release adds that make young people mainly to be insecure abolet themselves and that led them to want to change their appearance.

LORENA: I angree, I also think that It gives them phsychological issues and develope illness like anorexy and bulimia.

PAULA: Basically, nowadays they make business on everything, but playing with our healt... That's not good!

LORENA: I think the same.

PAULA: Well, It was nice talking about this and see that you have the same opinion. I'll call you, bye!

LORENA: OK! See you later.